The Dark Things

You know you are loved not by your ability to be something to someone, but rather by your ability to be nothing to them. To be nothing special. To

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Tuck Your Chin and Throw Punches

Struggles, opposition, failure—all of these make up the landscape of every day life, but Western society doesn’t deal well with them. The modern church does not have a

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Psalm for the Broken

Psalm for the Broken was written at a stage when things where changing for me. I had come to terms with what had happened to me. I had accepted

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This too shall pass

“This too shall pass.” Nothing in all the world gives me greater hope than this simple concept. Whatever I am dealing with today is simply a temporary affliction–something that will

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Dear Universe

Dear everyone in the universe, today is just one of those days. So I am going to need you to BACK THE FUCK OFF. Well what can i

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Boken in hard places

I wrote this piece, Broken in Hard Places, out of a sense of profound dismay. Sexual abuse breaks a man in places that cannot be easily identified or openly

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come hold my hand

You might walk a mile in my shoes but you will never know how far I’ve come and how far I have to go.

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Beauty and her Beast

Barbot de Villeneuve was right. Inside every cursed beast is a man looking to be loved.

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You make me feel like superman

  You make me feel like superman Even when I’m not wearing my undies on the outside.  

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you are not alone

For the millions of men who spent their youth lost and alone. Raped, ridiculed, doubted, disbelieved, ridiculed, shamed;   Who have walked alone for years, blaming themselves, unable to

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